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By: Tamara | March 08, 2018


In the hands of the Potter

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, they are a new creation: the old is gone, the new has come.    2 Corinthians 5;17
Isn't that exciting? I think it is. If you are like me and have made mistakes in any area and looking for a do-over, well, putting your life in Jesus' hands is the best start for change. We are re-created. New. Old junk is gone and we are forgiven!
For me, it was shedding off the old, negative, awful attitudes that hurt so many people in my life. Guilt, shame, self-condemnation I held inside thinking it was over for me. I lost my confidence. I lost most everything. But I tried to hide it. I tried to put on the face of strength. That doesn't work because it comes back to you. Once I truly ...

By: Tamara | January 12, 2018

Make that Change



Remember the song, Man In the Mirror, by Michael Jackson?

I'm starting with the man in the mirror.

I'm asking him to change his ways.

And no message could have been any clearer-

If you wanna make a better place, take a look at yourself and make that change.



Perfect words for what I want to say to everyone. If you're unhappy in your life, don't blame everyone else and expect them to change before you can be happy with your life. If you want to see change, start with yourself. Look in the mirror and ask what can You do? Where can you start?

Asking yourself to change your ways can be many things. Let's look at character a minute. What are you known for? Bad attitude? Moody? Judgmental? Critical? Aloof? Or are you known...

By: Tamara | November 06, 2017


What’s Wrong With My Life?


It’s a mess. Life as you knew it is out of control. You and your spouse aren’t getting along as you used to. The kids aren’t behaving as they used to. People at work are getting on your last nerve. People at the grocery store move like they have nowhere else to go. Your health is sluggish, your friends don’t call you anymore, your dreams of what you wanted to be have faded and nothing is as it used to be. You stopped taking care of yourself, you always look undone or haggard. How did this happen?

Life has gotten so frustrating that you stopped going to church, stopped spending time with God and now you’re just trying to make it through the day without crying. You think you might want a break, maybe a divorce, or ma...

By: Tamara | May 26, 2017

all you need is faith the size of a mustard seed


Faithfulness is to have faith and a life that is faith based. That was nothing close to how I lived my life. I thought it was a great idea, but too impossible to achieve. Besides, I hadn’t seen anyone with that kind of life to even know what that looked like. We can have an idea of the kind of life we want to live and we can find people who have what you’re looking for. I remember reading one of Life Coach-Motivational Speaker, Tony Robbins' books years back and one of his teachings was on finding someone who is doing what you want to do and model it. In other words, don’t try to reinvent the wheel. What may have taken someone else fifteen years to achieve, you can do it in half the time if not less. Well, I thought it was great advice. Th...

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