TAMARA BERNADETTE

By: Tamara | November 06, 2017


What’s Wrong With My Life?


It’s a mess. Life as you knew it is out of control. You and your spouse aren’t getting along as you used to. The kids aren’t behaving as they used to. People at work are getting on your last nerve. People at the grocery store move like they have nowhere else to go. Your health is sluggish, your friends don’t call you anymore, your dreams of what you wanted to be have faded and nothing is as it used to be. You stopped taking care of yourself, you always look undone or haggard. How did this happen?

Life has gotten so frustrating that you stopped going to church, stopped spending time with God and now you’re just trying to make it through the day without crying. You think you might want a break, maybe a divorce, or ma...

By: Tamara | October 31, 2017

What is girl changed? Did you look at this name, title and wondered, what is that? What does that mean? Well, if you didn’t read my welcome page or about me page, then I’ll explain.

Girl Changed came about from having gone through everything I went through, the dark days, the long seasons of being what I refer to as the “wilderness years” and coming out a completely different person. A new girl. New. Changed, in every way.

There was a lot of pain, isolation, old, forgotten memories that surfaced-not for torture, but for growth. You have to face yourself to be able to move on and be a better you. I wanted change in my life. But I didn’t think it was me who had to changed. But, I found out the hard way that it was me who had to change fir...