TAMARA BERNADETTE

By: Tamara | January 03, 2018

This is the year! 2018, the year I have been waiting for, the year I have working toward. I have a lot I want to share about the process of changing. It’s much more than we think. And it’s different for everyone. Some go through and need more, but all have areas that could be better especially if you find yourself in the wilderness stage. It’s a lonely time and although it may feel like nothing is happening, believe me, A Lot is going on that you cannot see.
But what do you do in that stage? Give up? Many people do. If you are alone, divorced, empty nester- you most likely feel what’s the point. Why bother. Nobody is around to share your life with so what’s the point? You have given up and have no real social life. Maybe you go to work and ...

By: Tamara | October 31, 2017

What is girl changed? Did you look at this name, title and wondered, what is that? What does that mean? Well, if you didn’t read my welcome page or about me page, then I’ll explain.

Girl Changed came about from having gone through everything I went through, the dark days, the long seasons of being what I refer to as the “wilderness years” and coming out a completely different person. A new girl. New. Changed, in every way.

There was a lot of pain, isolation, old, forgotten memories that surfaced-not for torture, but for growth. You have to face yourself to be able to move on and be a better you. I wanted change in my life. But I didn’t think it was me who had to changed. But, I found out the hard way that it was me who had to change fir...