TAMARA BERNADETTE

By: Tamara | May 11, 2017

What’s your motivation? This can be used for good or bad. Why do you do what you do? What’s the reason behind it? I have to admit to you that I only thought I was selfless. I truly believed I was always thinking of my family. But over the years of being away from my family, I was made aware that I was not the selfless person I thought I was. And as with every truth the Lord showed me about myself, it was painful.

I grew up in a single-parent household, for the most part and I wanted something better for my family; a two-parent home. I believed I was doing a good job as wife and mother. The bottom line was I didn’t take into account what my husband was going through.

I would lay all the big problems on his lap and sat on the...